I have been working on a quilt that a gal who works with Chris wanted me to make as a special baby gift for a good friend of hers..... Anyway, I was eager to have a project to do, so I said I would do it. It was really fun getting the materials in the colors and theme she wanted and the quilt top went together quite fast. As I began quilting it, I began to think, wow I am spending alot of time on this and I will be giving it away to someone I don't even know....even though the gal did pay me to do it and I was enjoying the whole process. Since I just finished reading a book on the importance of how you spend your time, I thought "I should be making something like this for someone dear to me." and determined I probably wouldn't do this again anytime soon. As I continued on with the quilt, it did give me joy to know that it would be a special gift and that the new mom and baby would be excited to receive it and use it. Then....
Chris came home last Thursday night and told me that the gal at the office took him aside and said that the mom had lost the baby. She was 8 1/2 months along and at her last check up the dr. could not find a heart beat, so she was to have a c-section to deliver the stillborn baby. My heart was broken for this young mom and her husband. The next day the gal at the office was talking to Chris about the heartbreak, pain, and grief she and the parents and family were going through. Chris had a chance to share with her about Michael (our son who is in Heaven with the Lord) and even though this gal and the family are not believers she asked for some material on the loss of a child---when Chris said everything we had was from a Christian perspective, she said that's OK, she still wanted it.
I am in awe once again at God and His ways. God in His foreknowledge knew this was going to happen, and now the reason for making the quilt has become clearer--it is one way He can minister to this family. I am humbled that God would use us in this way. We are praying for this young couple that they would be open to God comforting them in their grief and that in that journey they would discover a Savior and a love like no other.


